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Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 58 minutes

Sharing the Secret of Abortion

In this video, Sydna Masse sheds light on a truth too often shrouded in silence—the lifelong effects of abortion—and inspire post-abortive people to understand and perhaps embrace God’s calling to step forward as voices of education and healing. Unpack the compelling reasons why the world hears so little about abortion’s reality, from stigma to shame, and equip post-abortive people with the courage to change that narrative. Perfect for those sensing a call to share publicly, this video offers practical guidance on discerning when to speak and when to hold back, preparing for public events with confidence, and taking that vulnerable first step of sharing with family and friends.

Instructor: Karen Fifer
Time: 53 minutes

Abortion and Future Sexual Intimacy

Karen Fifer delves into the profound and often heart-wrenching ways abortion can leave lasting wounds on a woman’s sexual well-being in this video. She examines the emotional and spiritual brokenness many women experience post-abortion, including the shattering of sexual soul ties—the pervasive ripple effects of promiscuity that can follow, and the deep, lingering impact of sexual abuse that compounds the pain. You’ll learn a compassionate, intentional approach to help clients reclaim intimacy, breaking free from shame and disconnection. Walk away from this workshop equipped with both inspiration and actionable steps to minister to this tender area with sensitivity and hope.

Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 20 minutes

Help Wanted: Abortion Recovery Leaders who are NOT Post-Abortive

Unlock the path to making a meaningful impact in abortion recovery with Sydna Masse's enlightening video course, specifically crafted for those who haven't experienced abortion personally. This comprehensive guide covers everything from assessing your readiness to embracing the blessings of following God's call. Be inspired by Biblical role models, learn through recommended experiences, master team-building strategies, and discover job experiences that amplify your contribution to the ministry. Whether you're looking to join or lead abortion recovery efforts, this course equips you with the essential tools and motivation needed to support healing and make a real difference. Embrace this opportunity to transform lives and serve with purpose. Enroll now and start your journey towards becoming a pivotal part of abortion recovery initiatives.

Instructor: Karen Fifer, Sydna Masse & Melissa Horton
Time: 1 hour 10 minutes

Portraits of Abortion Pain: Timelines & Healing Stages

Explore the intricate and deeply personal ways abortion’s pain unfolds uniquely across men and women, shaped by their demographics, life circumstances, and individual stories, and discover how to shepherd them toward healing with tailored care with Karen Fifer, Sydna Masse and Melissa Horton. This video dives into why certain demographic groups—like athletes, beauty pageant participants, children of ministry leaders, or those from extreme wealth or poverty—may be more prone to choose abortion, and how their healing journeys diverge. Map out detailed timelines of grief and the distinct stages of recovery, learning customized approaches to guide each person toward renewal with empathy and wisdom. You’ll discover a deeper understanding and the tools to meet diverse needs, turning pain into a pathway of restoration.

Instructor: Melissa Horton
Time: 60 minutes

Living in the Shadows of an Abortion Decision

In this video, Melissa Horton examines the hidden, often unspoken burden carried by those who play a role in an abortion decision—whether pushing for it or pleading against it—and the profound ripple effects that echo across lives and generations. Drawing from a rich series of personal insights, this session explores the emotional, spiritual, and relational toll on these abortion influencers, from the gnawing weight of guilt and regret to the silent wounds passed down through families over time.

Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 1hour 5 minutes

Inspiring the Faithful: Marketing to Donors

Sydna Masse shares in this video about igniting the passion of pro-life donors with marketing strategies that fuel your mission . Dive into the art of creating inspiring, values-driven appeals that resonate deeply with supporters, leveraging the power of social media to build a thriving community and advertising your website to vividly showcase your center’s impact. You’ll tackle the real-world challenges of working with website managers who may not fully grasp the abortion landscape, ensuring your donor-facing content shines with clarity and purpose. This presentation offers a wealth of ideas to grow your funding base, leaving you with actionable steps to invite donors into your mission with conviction and heart.

Instructor: Sydna Masse, Jessica Deese
Time: 58 minutes

Listening to Tomorrow: Focus Group Marketing

Unlock the vibrant power of young voices to shape your pregnancy center’s future with this innovative focus group testing video presented by Sydna Masse and Jessica Deese. Learn how to invite potential clients—males and females aged 12 to 24—into your center with the enticing lure of pizza and a gift card, introducing them to your mission through an engaging tour. Gather their honest, unfiltered impressions on your website design, furniture layout, or service areas, discovering what resonates with the next generation. This session walks you through designing these interactive sessions, crafting the right questions, and translating feedback into actionable improvements that enhance your outreach. Leave with a clear strategy to listen well and connect meaningfully with youth and encourage word-of-mouth advertising!

Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 28minutes

Random Acts of Card Kindness

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Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 1 hour 4 minutes

HerChoicetoHeal.com: An Overview & Practical Strategies for Ministry Integration

During this workshop, Sydna Massé will share the story of HerChoicetoHeal.com website – an interactive online abortion recovery program that has revolutionized the healing journey after abortion since its debut in 2017. In her presentation, Sydna will offer an in-depth examination of the nine modules, shedding light on the website’s organizational structure, rich content, and potent transformative resources. Additionally, she will share pragmatic strategies for seamlessly integrating this distinctive, openly available website into the existing ministry outreach initiatives.

Instructor: Karen Fifer
Time: 59 minutes

Unlocking Retreat Success: Essential Tools & Techniques

Join Karen Fifer as she delves into the comprehensive resources of offering retreats to two demographics – those who are post-abortive and those who have experienced pregnancy and infant loss. Discover how to seamlessly integrate Ramah International’s Her Choice to Heal and Weathering the Storm programs, exploring topics like:

• Initial attendee interviews
• Effective promotion strategies
• Essential administrative forms
• Detailed schedules and meal plans
• Supply lists and teaching guides
• Recovery guidelines and retreat goals
• Identifying hidden agendas
• Facilitating meaningful discussions
• Detailed healing activities
• Scripture integration

This guide ensures a seamless retreat experience, providing newfound confidence for both seasoned facilitators and newcomers to the format. Join us and unlock the full potential of your retreat leadership journey.

Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 45 minutes

Empowering Your Ministry: Leveraging the Ramah Institute & Her Choice to Heal Websites

In today’s digital world, ministries have new ways to connect and support their communities online. Join Sydna Massé in this workshop as she highlights how your pregnancy center or abortion recovery efforts can benefit from featuring HerChoicetoHeal.com on ministry websites and during speaking engagements. Sydna takes you on a tour of the site, showcasing its features and how it can strengthen your ministry. She also introduces the upcoming Ramah Institute, launching in January 2025, which will provide tools and training for pre- and post-abortion work.

Instructor: Melissa Horton, Sydna Masse, Karen Fifer
Time: 1 hour 13 minutes

Abortion's Psychological & Emotional Landscape

This video, featuring Melissa Horton, Sydna Masse and Karen Fifer, unravels abortion’s complex effects on family systems and learn to bring healing to every layer. This session explores: “Ten Comforts” for those mourning aborted family members, “When Abortion is a Family Secret” for hidden pain, “Six Ways Abortion Can Affect the Family” for its broad reach, and “Abortion’s Generational Curse” for lasting echoes.

Instructor: Melissa Hammock
Time: 1 hour 29 minutes

Trauma Tools

During this workshop, Melissa Hammock will discuss: an overview of the traumatic impact of surgical and medication abortions on the healing process; comforting survivors of sexual abuse; navigating our own personal trauma when hearing difficult stories; identifying suitable professional counseling resources when needed.

Instructor: Tracey Olsen, Janet Caldon
Time: 1 hour 43 minutes

Fundamentals of Pregnancy & Infant Loss Ministry Part 1

Tracey Olsen and Janet Caldon offer an introduction to a new pregnancy and infant loss ministry program, Weathering the Storm, during this session. Drawing from their hands-on experience and accumulated knowledge, they will share the intricacies of merging abortion recovery and miscarriage ministry under their center’s unified pregnancy loss program. This in-depth session is meticulously crafted to provide a comprehensive overview of the new Weathering the Storm program. It will showcase the program’s implementation in both a weekly and weekend format, ensuring attendees are thoroughly equipped and prepared to introduce and offer this nuanced level of ministry in their respective environments.

Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 1 hour 10 minutes

Fundamentals of Pregnancy & Infant Loss Ministry Part 2

Tracey Olsen and Janet Caldon offer an introduction to a new pregnancy and infant loss ministry program, Weathering the Storm, during this session. Drawing from their hands-on experience and accumulated knowledge, they will share the intricacies of merging abortion recovery and miscarriage ministry under their center’s unified pregnancy loss program. This in-depth session is meticulously crafted to provide a comprehensive overview of the new Weathering the Storm program. It will showcase the program’s implementation in both a weekly and weekend format, ensuring attendees are thoroughly equipped and prepared to introduce and offer this nuanced level of ministry in their respective environments.

Instructor: Sydna Masse, Jessica Deese
Time: 1 hour 11 minutes

Empowering Emotional and Spiritual Abortion Recovery with “Healing Activities”

This workshop convenes a distinguished panel composed of veteran leaders (Melissa Horton, Cathy Plouff, and Yvonne Brewer) who will collectively delve into the profound impact of “Healing Activities” within ministry programs. Drawing upon their vast and varied expertise, they will provide insights and share practical, interactive techniques and tools designed to bolster emotional recovery, highlighting God’s transformative power in guiding individuals towards a deeper understanding and healthier processing of their emotions.

Instructor: Melissa Hammock
Time: 48minutes

After the Group Ministry Care

During this workshop, Melissa Hammock presents an intricate format for a monthly follow-up, specifically tailored for individuals who have either completed a healing class or are actively participating in the abortion recovery ministry program. Topics include stress, grief, early sexualization recovery, and recognizing burnout. The session will summarize Beyond Regret: Living Victorious After Abortion and provide valuable resources like healing books, podcasts, and Scriptures to assist in managing ongoing healing work.

Instructor: Karen Fifer
Time: 39 minutes

Unraveling the Emotional Impact of Denial, Guilt, and Shame After Abortion

Karen Fifer will delve into the emotional complexities of denial, guilt, and shame, in the context of post-abortion experiences. This session will offer in-depth perspectives on these emotions, focusing on their distinct characteristics, manifestations, and impacts. Also explored are the symptoms that indicate the presence of denial and the dynamic tension between guilt and shame, highlighting their differences and similarities. Healing Activities aimed to foster deeper healing through spiritual growth and the strengthening of one’s relationship with God will also be reviewed.

Instructor: Karen Fifer
Time: 58 minutes

Unlocking Retreat Success: Essential Tools and Techniques

Join Karen Fifer as she delves into the comprehensive resources of offering retreats to two demographics – those who are post-abortive and those who have experienced pregnancy and infant loss. Discover how to seamlessly integrate Ramah International’s Her Choice to Heal and Weathering the Storm programs, exploring topics like:

• Initial attendee interviews
• Effective promotion strategies
• Essential administrative forms
• Detailed schedules and meal plans
• Supply lists and teaching guides
• Recovery guidelines and retreat goals
• Identifying hidden agendas
• Facilitating meaningful discussions
• Detailed healing activities
• Scripture integration

This guide ensures a seamless retreat experience, providing newfound confidence for both seasoned facilitators and newcomers to the format. Join us and unlock the full potential of your retreat leadership journey.

Instructor: Melissa Rodriguez, Sydna Massé
Time: 1 hour 14 minutes

How Culture Influences an Abortion Decision

Sydna Massé and Mellisa Rodriguez from Coastal Choices in Deland, FL explore how culture—through beliefs, traditions, and societal norms—deeply influences abortion decisions, particularly in former european and Latino families. They examine how cultural views on sexuality and religion shape individual choices and discuss the ethical considerations within different cultural contexts. The session also addresses the impact of stigma, societal pressures, and community expectations, as well as how race, ethnicity, and socio-economic status intersect with abortion experiences. Join this insightful discussion to better understand how culture shapes these complex decisions and learn how to effectively support clients in their journey.

Instructor: Karen Fifer
Time: 48 minutes

Honoring Life: Transformative Healing in Abortion Recovery

Abortion’s impact resonates beyond the women directly involved, affecting family members, and loved ones in profound ways. This workshop delves into the often-unspoken grief experienced by fathers, grandparents, siblings, and others touched by the decision. This includes a discussion of the tapestry of emotions that many endure that are frequently undefined and unaddressed. Through insightful discussions and guidance, Karen Fifer will provide strategies for offering support and creating spaces for healing conversations. Join us to learn how to minister effectively to those who may feel isolated in their experiences with abortion.

Instructor: Karen Fifer, Melissa Horton, Sydna Massé
Time: 1 hour 8 minutes

Conversations That Count: Equipping Abortion Encounters

Learn to coach friends, family, or coworkers—outside ministry circles—to discourage abortion in talks with abortion-vulnerable women unlikely to seek further help, in this video featuring Karen Fifer, Sydna Masse and Melissa Horton. Equip yourself to train others with a toolkit for these critical moments. You’ll master guiding them to listen empathetically, share life-affirming points—like the baby’s worth or support options—and counter myths with calm clarity. The team offers real scenarios, showing how to teach simple, impactful responses that shift perspectives without judgment. Attendees leave ready to empower others, turning casual chats into life-affirming opportunities with confidence and care.

Instructor: Jessica Deese
Time: 1 hour 8minutes

Faith at the Helm: Managing Ministry God’s Way

In this video presentation, Jessica Deese shares how to lead your pregnancy center with a business model deeply rooted in biblical truth, blending scriptural principles like stewardship, integrity, and service with practical management strategies that breathe life into your operations. This session guides you through streamlining processes, maximizing resources with care, and inspiring your team with a shared vision of purpose. Learn to balance budgets with faithfulness, set achievable goals that reflect your mission, and cultivate a ministry culture that thrives on God’s design.

Instructor: Sydna Massé
Time: 32 minutes

Gentle Restoration: Caring for Sexual Abuse Survivors

Explore how sexual abuse, affecting 85% of pregnancy center clients, shapes hearts in abortion recovery sessions in this insightful overview from Sydna Masse. See how past trauma surfaces—through shame, fear, or trust issues—complicating grief and guilt in the process. Recognize signs like withdrawal or resistance that signal deeper wounds, and learn when these exceed standard recovery, needing referral to outside counseling. This video will provide a clearer understanding of abuse’s impact on abortion recovery/unexpected pregnancy clients and the wisdom to support sexual abuse survivors compassionately.

Instructor: Sydna Massé
Time: 1 hour 13 minutes

Overcoming Abortion Judgment

Join Sydna Massé in an exploration of all aspects of forgiveness within the context of abortion recovery healing. Topics include: the triad of forgiveness crucial to the recovery journey – God’s forgiveness, forgiving others, and forgiving themselves; This enriching discussion delves into various scriptures that offer profound and enlightening insights into the intricate character of God. By analyzing these sacred texts, we’re exploring the deeper implications and underlying lessons of what it truly means to cultivate and sustain a lifelong journey of resilience, personal growth, and the continuous, evolving understanding in the realm of forgiveness and grace.

Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 1 hour 4 minutes

HerChoicetoHeal.com: An Overview & Practical Strategies for Ministry Integration

During this workshop, Sydna Massé will share the story of HerChoicetoHeal.com website – an interactive online abortion recovery program that has revolutionized the healing journey after abortion since its debut in 2017. In her presentation, Sydna will offer an in-depth examination of the nine modules, shedding light on the website’s organizational structure, rich content, and potent transformative resources. Additionally, she will share pragmatic strategies for seamlessly integrating this distinctive, openly available website into the existing ministry outreach initiatives.

Instructor: Karen Fifer, Janet Caldon and Tracey Olsen
Time: 1 hour 10 minutes

Designing Effective Retreat Models

Featuring the Her Choice to Heal Weekend and Weathering the Storm retreat programs, Karen Fifer, Janet Caldon and Tracey Olsen will offer practical guidelines for creating an impactful retreat-based format for your ministry initiatives. Key considerations in participant selection will be discussed, followed by the potential pre- or post-retreat care services to enhance your program’s efficacy. Hear first-hand accounts of how God has used retreats to bring about transformation in the lives of our presenters and deliberate the pros and cons of housing and meal options.

Instructor: Karen Fifer
Time: 52 minutes

Reclaiming Intimacy: Sex, Abortion and Marriage

Abortion can often cast a long shadow on future marital intimacy. In this session, Karen Fifer will examine the ripple effects of abortion on marital relationships. Key areas of focus in this comprehensive discussion encompass: meticulously pinpointing and gaining a deeper understanding of the signs and symptoms of post-abortion sexual dysfunction, delving into detailed personal narratives of individuals who’ve embarked on a journey and achieved a sense of regained wholeness, closely examining the profound and often understated impact such experiences can have on husbands and partners, and thoughtfully charting out the nuanced journey towards rejuvenating and restoring the intimate aspects of marriage to their full potential.

Find detailed notes in the downloadable 2024 Conference Manual, pp. 60-81 featured below the keynote videos.

Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 1 hour 4 minutes

Compassionate Guidance: Supporting Individuals Facing Abortion Decisions

Instructor: Jessica Deese
Time: 1 hour 19 minutes

The Wrap Around Ministry Model Part 1

Jessica Deece, Executive Director of Coastal Choices in Deland, FL, features a new model for holistic ministry in this enlightening workshop with the transformative model of Wrap-Around Care. This innovative approach harmonizes medical and social services, offering holistic support to clients navigating pregnancy decisions.

Discover how the Wrap-Around Care Model enables centers to provide comprehensive support to both abortion-minded and abortion-determined clients without overwhelming the center’s capacities. Gain insights into implementing this model seamlessly within your organization and fostering a nurturing environment for clients in need.

Find detailed notes in the downloadable 2024 Conference Manual, pp. 54-57 featured below the keynote videos.

Instructor: Jessica Deese
Time: 1 Hour 4 minutes

The Wrap Around Ministry Model Part 2

Join us for Part 2 of the Wrap-Around Ministry Model workshop, where we delve into essential elements for comprehensive support. These elements include:

• Baby Boutique and Subscription Boxes: Learn how to create a welcoming Baby Boutique offering vital resources for expectant parents. Explore implementing Subscription Box services tailored to each stage of pregnancy and early parenthood for long-term engagement.
• Thrive-Life Coaching: Discover transformative coaching principles empowering personal growth. Explore integrating coaching into pregnancy support services to enhance emotional resilience.
• Onsite/Offsite Mentoring: Gain insights into building supportive relationships, navigating coordination, and integrating spiritual care.
• Individualized Care Plans: Recognize the importance of tailored support services for each client while optimizing resources.
• Implementing Comprehensive Support: Explore effective staffing and organizational strategies for seamless integration.

Do not miss this opportunity to enhance your center’s impact. Join us to empower individuals and families on their pregnancy journey.

Find detailed notes in the downloadable 2024 Conference Manual, pp.102-107 featured below the keynote videos.

Instructor: Melissa Horton
Time: 47 minutes

The Little Toe of Anger: Types, Defense Mechanisms, and Healing Strategies

Melissa Horton will discuss the managing of anger after abortion during this session, delving deep into its intricate and often misunderstood emotional aftermath. Drawing from her extensive knowledge and experience, she will explore the different facets of anger, its nuanced interactions with various defense mechanisms, and the most effective techniques currently known to release and manage this deeply-rooted and potent emotion. Beyond this, the session places a significant emphasis on the healing journey, presenting a plethora of activities specifically tailored to release pent-up anger. These tools aim to assist women in breaking the pervasive strongholds of anger, ultimately leading them towards fostering healthier, more constructive emotional responses.

Instructor: Jessica Deese
Time: 51 minutes

Ministry Without Walls: The Mobile Advantage 

Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 54 minutes

Donor Mailings with Client Stories

Ignite the passion of pro-life donors with digital marketing strategies that fuel your mission in this engaging video featuring Sydna Masse. Dive into the art of creating inspiring, values-driven appeals that resonate deeply with supporters, leveraging the power of social media and direct mail to build a thriving community and advertising your website to vividly showcase your center’s impact. You’ll tackle the real-world challenges of working with website managers who may not fully grasp the abortion landscape, ensuring your donor-facing content shines with clarity and purpose. This workshop offers a wealth of ideas to grow your funding base, leaving you with actionable steps to invite donors into your mission with conviction and heart.

Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 19 minutes

Heaven’s Hope 

Offer eternal hope through Scriptures, Sydna Masse discusses the faith in Jesus that will reunites parents with unborn children in paradise. Explore a tapestry of powerful Scriptures that reveal the promise of reuniting with their children in heaven, where unborn little ones dwell in paradise, loved and cherished by their Creator. Through the healthy steps of naming and grieving, help individuals embrace their lost children as real, affirming their eternal bond despite earthly rejection.

Instructor: Karen Fifer
Time: 48 minutes

Honoring Life: Transformative Healing in Abortion Recovery

Abortion’s impact resonates beyond the women directly involved, affecting family members, and loved ones in profound ways. This workshop delves into the often-unspoken grief experienced by fathers, grandparents, siblings, and others touched by the decision. This includes a discussion of the tapestry of emotions that many endure that are frequently undefined and unaddressed. Through insightful discussions and guidance, Karen Fifer will provide strategies for offering support and creating spaces for healing conversations. Join us to learn how to minister effectively to those who may feel isolated in their experiences with abortion.

Instructor: Karen Fifer
Time: 48 minutes

Honoring Life: Transformative Healing in Abortion Recovery

Abortion’s impact resonates beyond the women directly involved, affecting family members, and loved ones in profound ways. This workshop delves into the often-unspoken grief experienced by fathers, grandparents, siblings, and others touched by the decision. This includes a discussion of the tapestry of emotions that many endure that are frequently undefined and unaddressed. Through insightful discussions and guidance, Karen Fifer will provide strategies for offering support and creating spaces for healing conversations. Join us to learn how to minister effectively to those who may feel isolated in their experiences with abortion.